Adrian is not even aware of the blood disease Thalsimissa until
he was going ahead with the divorce and Ivy then disclosed she had
this ailment so as to bolster her claims for ailmony and child
maintenance of $3700.In fact during the courtship Mother-in-law led
Adrian aside and disclosed that her daughter went for liposuction
to rempove the fats in her tummy as she had a big tummy since
young.In reality Adrian then realised the 2 criss cross in his ex
wife's tummy was to remove her spleen as disclosed in the affidavit
pursuant to the divorce.The fcat that Ivy without fail everyday
including weekends and public holidays went to her mum's place at
about 9am and return at night to the matrimonila flat at about 10pm
raised doubt in Adrian's mind.He is not medically inclined and
speculated that Ivy probably needed to go back to her mum's condo
was to secretly pumped blood.Hence there is nothing ficititious but
the truth of the story was reported in the Singapore Family Court
where Adrian attended about 15 court appearances ranging from child
custody,PPO(Police Protection Order),divorce ,request for child
visitation ,divorce and ancilliary matters.... 
[/b][/quote]T[/color]The marriage was a scam right from the start
initiated by a daughter and her mum.Why lie to Adrian that it was
liposunction about the 2 criss cross on her body instead of being
frank that it was a blood disease.Both mum and daughter insisted
that it was to remove fats only till the divorce state that it was
revealed in the affidavit that it was Thalsemissa.
Adrian was perectly healthy but Ivy the ex wife is a thalsemissa
major so the young child could be a carrier.I write this story
after talking to Adrian and he fully agrees that it is ok to let
the public be aware that there are such wicked.malicious women
existing in S'pore and that the Women's Charter is skewed towards
the protection of women is definitely outdated in today's context
and it;s due for review ,if not ,more women will use as weapons to
get back at their estranged husbands...jojobeach...looks like U're
related to these 2 malicious women if not why keep siding them.For
me I've nothing to gain but just want to highlight the injustice
done to my friend Adrian
[color=red]What slander? JojoBeach...when all the characters
here names have been changed completely although the story is true
based on what Adrian has realted to me.
As a woman,I guess U'll hve difficulty understanding how men had
been taken advantage off by the outmoded Women's Charter whose
original aim is to protect the illiterate and traditional
housewives in the 1960s and my aim is to highlight it has not
served its purpose in the 20-21st century in modern Singapore.Many
women including foreigners know how to take advantage to get even
or spite their estranged husbands.Imagine Ivy just needs to shout
abuse and the polce will investigate while Adrian himself has PPO
protection from Court.Can recall Adrian spend hours at police cell
even though Ivy and her mum falsely accused him of abuse at the
Family Service centre when he sought access to visit his young
daughter then.Despite the presence of social workers CCTV Adrian
was escorted to police to be investigated.Imagine the agony and
frustration and in the end Ivy and her mumonly apologised in court
to Adrian.
Ivy and her mum continued to pile on their attacks...she accused
him of "raping'her and video taped the scene to force her to give
up child custody and the matrimonila flat(she did not pay a single
cent and yet demanded 70% share and 70%share of his CPF) when the
marriage lasted ,a year.Police investigation showed that Ivy had
again made a false police report and the punishment was a stern
police warning only..clear-cut bias in favour of the female gender
at the expense of men.
Adrian agreed for me to write this story as his ex father in law
died a lonely man in a mental hospital after suffering almost same
torment from Ivy's mum(demands for branded goods,landed
property,etc)To them marriage is a transaction to exact maximum
gains.Do U know why her mu insisted on a condo when they hve been
staying in a rented flat for years.Investigation revealed that her
mum wanted to show to her in-laws that she was capable financially
but at the expense of soliciting so many relatives to be her
guarantors(only one successful) of her bank loan in view of her
retired and poor health status.
I rest my case as I merely hope this story will help S'pore man to
choose thaie wives diligently before saying "I do"
.Shakesphere says'I've to be cruel to be kind" ..my aim is only to
let general public know that such malicious women exist in modern
singapore.JoJo,U're free to invite the 2 women to come onboard to
present the case
